The Purpose Show

Apparently, turning 39 has me looking back at my younger self and questioning just about everything.
We're back with Part 2 of Things I Used to Believe That Make Me Cringe Now, and this time we're getting into some of the expectations I used to have about what it means to be a good woman, a good person, and a grown-ass adult.
Like the idea that women are supposed to start dressing differently once they reach a certain age. Who decided that?! And why are we still listening?
Or that being authentic means sharing absolutely everything about your life, especially when you're someone who has built a career being open with people.
And then there's the belief that the more you give, the better person you are.
Your time, your money, your energy, your knowledge. At what point did generosity become something we're supposed to prove through self-sacrifice?
I'm talking about how my perspective on all three has changed, what I've learned about boundaries and valuing myself, and why I no longer feel the need to live according to rules I didn't consciously choose.
This episode is a little lighter than Part 1, but there are some things in here I think a LOT of women need to hear.
Let's get into it.
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In this episode:
Why I don't believe in dressing your age anymore.
The expectations society places on women as they get older.
Why authenticity doesn't mean giving everyone unlimited access to your life.
The difference between honesty and complete transparency.
How my relationship with sharing publicly has changed.
Why giving more doesn't automatically make you a better person.
The difference between generosity and obligation.
What changes when you start treating your own time, money, and energy as valuable.

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There are things I believed so strongly ten years ago that I look back now and think… girl. WHAT were we doing?!
When I started The Purpose Show, I was a Christian mom raising four little kids, and I had some very strong opinions about what it meant to be a good woman, a good mother, and a good wife.
Well. A LOT has changed.
In Part 1 of this conversation, we're getting into two of the biggest beliefs I've completely changed my mind about: Christianity being the right way to live and raise children, and the idea that marriage should last forever because divorce means failure.
We're talking purity culture, religious shame, raising children to obey instead of question, the expectations placed on women in marriage, and why I think we've gotten the definition of a successful marriage completely wrong.
I'm also sharing what ending my marriage actually made possible for our family, because divorce doesn't always look the way people assume it does.
And honestly? I think there's something really important about being willing to change your mind, especially when you've spent years sharing your beliefs publicly.
Some people will see that growth and think it's sad. Others will be like, FUCK YES.
And that's okay.
This isn't about telling you what to believe. It's about questioning the things we've accepted as truth without ever really examining them.
Let's get into it.
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In this episode:
Why I no longer believe Christianity is the right way to raise my children.
Purity culture, obedience, shame, and what those messages teach girls about themselves.
Why I think questioning what you've been taught is so important.
The problem with measuring a marriage's success by how long it lasts.
The history of women's limited options for leaving marriages.
Why divorce isn't automatically a failure.
What ending my marriage actually made possible for our family.

Bonus episode from Business Energetics, my business podcast. I'm retiring that show and moving every episode here so you can still find them. These are business-focused. New Purpose Show episodes still come out every Sunday.
In this episode, I'm guiding you through a powerful journey of shifting from scarcity to abundance. We're diving into mindfulness, visualization, and affirmations to help you reconnect with your true self and step into your full potential. It's time to rewrite the old stories holding you back and reprogram your subconscious mind to attract financial freedom, emotional security, and a life that feels so good. This is your moment to release limiting beliefs and step fully into overflow. Let's do this together!

Bonus episode from Business Energetics, my business podcast. I'm retiring that show and moving every episode here so you can still find them. These are business-focused. New Purpose Show episodes still come out every Sunday.
In this episode of Business Energetics, I'm diving deep into the transformative power of mindset shifts for entrepreneurs. I share how positive assumptions aren't just feel-good ideas—they're game-changers that can reshape your business outcomes. Drawing on my own experiences, I reveal how retraining your brain to assume the best can lead to greater success, alignment, and abundance. I also introduce a range of tools and resources designed to help you shift your mindset and create meaningful, positive changes in both your life and business. If you're ready to break through old patterns and step into a future of limitless possibility, this episode is for you.

Bonus episode from Business Energetics, my business podcast. I'm retiring that show and moving every episode here so you can still find them. These are business-focused. New Purpose Show episodes still come out every Sunday.
In this episode of Business Energetics, I'm breaking down why messy progress beats perfection every time. If you're waiting for that perfect moment, you're only setting yourself up for stagnation. I'm sharing how bold, imperfect actions are the secret to real growth and success. Plus, I introduce Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as a powerful tool to help you overcome perfectionism and finally take action. This episode is your motivational pep talk to let go of your fears and embrace the journey toward your goals—messy, real, and unstoppable.