Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

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#268 Navigating Body Image, Sexuality, and Self-Acceptance (with Kiki Maree)
On this episode, Cam interviews returning guest Kiki Maree, a sexologist, who discusses her passion for helping individuals express and understand their sexuality more authentically. The conversation covers the significant impact of body image on sexual satisfaction and the importance of understanding the fluidity of sexuality throughout life stages. Kiki shares insights on normalizing changes in sexual desire and function, particularly in relation to the menstrual cycle and life transitions such as parenthood and menopause. Cam adds his perspective on supporting men in accepting changes in their bodies and sexual function, highlighting the influence of media and societal expectations on self-perception. They also address practical tools and strategies for improving body image and sexual satisfaction, including focusing on body functionality and finding relatable representations in media. The episode concludes with a discussion on fostering a positive relationship with one's body, both individually and within intimate partnerships.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:04 Understanding Sexuality and Menstrual Cycle04:29 Body Image Issues in Sexuality08:00 Impact of Body Image on Intimacy16:43 Strategies for Positive Body Image26:02 Practical Tips for Self-Compassion35:11 The Reality of Porn Representation36:24 Finding Authentic Representation37:52 Exposure to Diverse Bodies42:41 Personal Journey to Body Acceptance46:21 The Influence of Social Media on Body Image51:36 Reframing Exercise and Diet Culture55:38 Conclusion and ResourcesFree Body Image Masterclass: https://www.wixforms.com/f/7398981604351149056
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#267 The Naked Truth: Comedy, Courage, and Owning Your Story (with Nikki Justice)
In this episode of #mensexpleasure, I speak with Nikki Justice—award-winning comedian, mother, and OnlyFans creator—about turning pain into punchlines and reclaiming power through comedy, courage, and self-expression. After a divorce during the pandemic, Nikki stumbled into stand-up, transforming her unconventional life and past struggles into bold, unapologetic storytelling.We explore the realities of being a woman in comedy and sex work, navigating online hate and societal judgment, and how humour can be both rebellion and release. Nikki also shares the inspiration behind her daring new show, The Naked Truth—a fully nude stand-up performance that celebrates vulnerability, body confidence, and freedom from shame.A raw, funny, and fearless conversation about resilience, reinvention, and the radical act of owning your story—on and off the stage.Key Points:@ 3:48 Finding comedy after divorce@ 7:53 Facing judgment and online backlash@ 21:44 Creating The Naked Truth@ 27:00 Balancing humour, healing, and authenticityRelevant Links:Nikki Justice Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nikkijusticecomedy/Nikki Justice Website: https://www.nikkijustice.com.au/
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#266 Reclaiming Pleasure: Healing, Curiosity, and the Power of Embodiment (with Annette Benedetti)
In this episode of #mensexpleasure, I speak with Annette Benedetti—Portland-based sex and intimacy coach, writer, and host of the acclaimed show Talk Sex With Annette—about reclaiming pleasure, power, and connection through curiosity and compassion. Ranked in the top 2.5% of podcasts globally, Annette’s work dives deep into taboo-breaking conversations around kink, trauma, and empowerment, informed by both her professional expertise and lived experience as a survivor.We explore how cultural narratives and trauma shape our relationship with sexuality, the body, and intimacy—and how healing begins with awareness, consent, and curiosity. Annette shares practical insights on rebuilding trust and sensation after trauma, moving away from performance-based sex toward mutual exploration, and helping men appreciate their own bodies as worthy of pleasure and beauty.A raw, empowering conversation about dismantling shame, embracing embodiment, and creating space for authentic healing and pleasure.Key Points:@ 0:52 Barriers to embracing feminine power@ 4:39 Navigating trauma and its impacts@ 9:43 Rebuilding trust and sensation after trauma@ 16:31 Reframing goals and expectations around sex@ 47:30 Appreciating the male form and bodyRelevant Links:Annette Benedetti Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/Annette Benedetti YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette
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#265 Beyond the Screen: Stigma, Intimacy, and Authenticity in Adult Content (with Honey Brooks)
In this episode of #mensexpleasure, I speak with Honey Brooks, a rural Australian mum, top OnlyFans creator, and bold voice redefining modern relationships—about navigating stigma, intimacy, and authenticity in the adult industry. From building a million-dollar business on her family farm to creating content with her husband, Honey shares her journey of creating content with her husband, including the importance of communication, trust, and respecting boundaries when sex and work intersect. We explore subscriber relationships, the responsibilities of adult creators, and the importance of fostering healthier conversations about sexuality. A candid and empowering dialogue on shame, connection, and writing your own rules.Key Points:@ 0:00 Introductions and background@ 3:30 Navigating disclosure and stigma@ 8:57 Creating content with a partner@ 27:41 Audience and subscriber relationships@ 42:39 Reflections on the adult industry@ 48:43 Closing thoughtsRelevant links:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/honeyybrooks/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@honeybrooks_
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#264 Healing After Control: Trauma, Consent, and Intimacy (with Leah Carey)
In this episode of #mensexpleasure, I speak again with Leah Carey—sex and relationship coach based in the US who specializes in supporting people recovering from high-control or narcissistic abuse backgrounds. This time, we explore how trauma impacts intimacy, consent, and sexual connection. She explains how constant stress and lack of autonomy in childhood wire the brain for hypervigilance and fear, reducing creative problem-solving and shaping long-term challenges in relationships. We discuss why common self-care practices like meditation or journaling can be triggering for survivors, and explore trauma-sensitive alternatives that feel safer and more accessible. Leah also unpacks the complexities of intimacy and consent for those with trauma histories, including people-pleasing tendencies, blurred boundaries, and strategies for cultivating safe, pleasurable experiences. A deeply compassionate dialogue on recovery, autonomy, and reclaiming intimacy after control.Key Points@ 4:36 Impact of trauma on brain development@ 12:27 Challenges with common self-care practices@ 18:37 Navigating intimacy and consent@ 50:59 Recap and resourcesRelevant LinksLeah Carey Website: www.leahcarey.comLeah’s Substack: https://xoleahcarey.substack.com/Leah Carey Instagram: @goodgirlstalk
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