Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Jessica Soares, also known as the Erotic Muse or the Holy Hedonist, shares insights into her unique career as an erotic artist and experience designer. Jessica discusses her passion for fostering creativity and helping individuals live authentically. She delves into the nuances of creating erotic audio content aimed at arousal and its impact on both creator and consumer. Additionally, the conversation explores the complexities around authenticity, societal perceptions of erotic content, and the importance of paying for such artistry. We also touch upon Jessica’s methods for cultivating a shame-free environment and the evolving landscape of sexuality work.Key points:00:32 Meet Jessica Soares: The Erotic Muse04:48 Navigating Public Perception and Erotic Content16:21 Permission vs. Prescription in Sexual Expression27:06 Embracing Arousal in Practice27:31 Creating Erotic Audio for Men28:20 Guided Self-Pleasure Practices29:04 Retention and Edging Techniques31:53 Defining Pornography and Erotica42:17 Supporting Erotic ArtistsRelevant links:https://patreon.com/HolyHetairawww.theroticmuse.comCODE for 25% off first month of membership: MSP25

In this episode, Mike Andryszewski shares his personal and professional journey in the realm of bodywork, sexuality, and spirituality. Mike discusses his background as a bodyworker and the various modalities he incorporates into his practice, including Thai massage, myofascial release, and craniosacral therapy. He emphasizes the importance of integrating mind-body connection and addressing deeper emotional issues through therapeutic touch. Mike also opens up about his experiences with premature ejaculation, sexual shame, and the transformative power of open communication with partners. The conversation delves into Mike's time as a celibate monk in a Hari Krishna ashram, his subsequent sexual renaissance, and how he reconciles his spirituality with his sexuality. The discussion culminates in the significance of connecting with nature and sensuality as a means to enhance both sexual and spiritual well-being.Key points:00:00 Introduction and Hot Seat Questions00:20 Mike's Background and Passion01:57 Exploring Body Work04:53 Integrating Coaching and Body Work07:48 Personal Journey and Sexual Renaissance12:22 Overcoming Premature Ejaculation20:16 The Role of Communication in Sexual Health27:46 Managing Shame and Expectations in Sexual Experiences30:33 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships32:26 Exploring Spirituality and Sexuality38:30 Integrating Spiritual Practices into Sexual Experiences42:41 Connecting with Nature and Sensuality47:13 Final Thoughts and Practical Advice

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam intterviews Alex, a men's sex coach, about authenticity in male sexuality. Alex shares his personal journey and experiences with societal pressures that shaped his early sexual experiences, including performance anxiety and the influence of substance abuse. Cam and Alex discuss the transition towards a more genuine, shame-free sexual expression. They explore how societal messages and stereotypes impact not only their sex lives but also their broader relationships and mental health. They emphasise the importance of open communication, vulnerability, and self-exploration to understand one's unique sexual blueprint. By overcoming fear and anxiety, they advocate for embracing one's authentic sexual self. The episode also touches on the significance of nervous system regulation in dealing with sexual anxieties and the role of men's support groups in facilitating open conversations about these issues.Key points:00:00 Introduction and Opening Questions00:47 Defining Authentic Sexuality01:52 Societal Expectations and Masculinity03:05 Personal Struggles with Sexual Performance05:30 Journey to Sobriety and Self-Discovery07:23 Facing Shame and Embracing Authenticity15:33 Navigating Nervous System Responses17:22 Breathwork and Nervous System Regulation21:08 Communicating Sexual Desires with Partners25:10 The Importance of Vulnerability29:46 The Struggle of Asking for Help30:05 Acknowledging the Need for Help31:07 Vulnerability in Discussing Sexual Issues31:59 Exploring Sexuality and Self-Understanding33:20 The Power of Erotic Blueprints35:14 The Fluidity of Sexual Desires38:31 Breaking Free from Masturbation Habits40:39 Navigating Shame and Self-Pleasure42:29 The Anxiety Around Ejaculation49:10 The Importance of Vulnerability in Men's Groups50:16 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find More

On this episode, Cam interviews returning guest Kiki Maree, a sexologist, who discusses her passion for helping individuals express and understand their sexuality more authentically. The conversation covers the significant impact of body image on sexual satisfaction and the importance of understanding the fluidity of sexuality throughout life stages. Kiki shares insights on normalizing changes in sexual desire and function, particularly in relation to the menstrual cycle and life transitions such as parenthood and menopause. Cam adds his perspective on supporting men in accepting changes in their bodies and sexual function, highlighting the influence of media and societal expectations on self-perception. They also address practical tools and strategies for improving body image and sexual satisfaction, including focusing on body functionality and finding relatable representations in media. The episode concludes with a discussion on fostering a positive relationship with one's body, both individually and within intimate partnerships.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:04 Understanding Sexuality and Menstrual Cycle04:29 Body Image Issues in Sexuality08:00 Impact of Body Image on Intimacy16:43 Strategies for Positive Body Image26:02 Practical Tips for Self-Compassion35:11 The Reality of Porn Representation36:24 Finding Authentic Representation37:52 Exposure to Diverse Bodies42:41 Personal Journey to Body Acceptance46:21 The Influence of Social Media on Body Image51:36 Reframing Exercise and Diet Culture55:38 Conclusion and ResourcesFree Body Image Masterclass: https://www.wixforms.com/f/7398981604351149056

In this episode of #mensexpleasure, I speak with Nikki Justice—award-winning comedian, mother, and OnlyFans creator—about turning pain into punchlines and reclaiming power through comedy, courage, and self-expression. After a divorce during the pandemic, Nikki stumbled into stand-up, transforming her unconventional life and past struggles into bold, unapologetic storytelling.We explore the realities of being a woman in comedy and sex work, navigating online hate and societal judgment, and how humour can be both rebellion and release. Nikki also shares the inspiration behind her daring new show, The Naked Truth—a fully nude stand-up performance that celebrates vulnerability, body confidence, and freedom from shame.A raw, funny, and fearless conversation about resilience, reinvention, and the radical act of owning your story—on and off the stage.Key Points:@ 3:48 Finding comedy after divorce@ 7:53 Facing judgment and online backlash@ 21:44 Creating The Naked Truth@ 27:00 Balancing humour, healing, and authenticityRelevant Links:Nikki Justice Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nikkijusticecomedy/Nikki Justice Website: https://www.nikkijustice.com.au/