Not For Everyone

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Welcome back to Kook University! Your two favorite professors kick off this week’s episode with a whatado from a mountain climber who asks about negotiating a balance between pursuing her personal fitness goals and her partner’s hurt feelings. Caroline and Jess get pretty fired up as they advise the listener to prioritize her needs. Then they give her boyfriend a stern talking to about gender role expectations and competition within relationships.

Talk of gender swaps leads to a sleepover movie rec from Jess, who also reports glowing reviews for her “I have a complaint” hat. Then these two explore the romance of climbing gyms, a fraught relationship to workout gear, and the intricacies of Genius Couple Time, all before envisioning their old lady selves. Belay on!

This episode was produced by Kasia Houlihan. (⁠⁠⁠cargocollective.com/kasiahoulihan⁠⁠⁠)
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Babies, your dear scientists send their loveliest regards as they address a whatado about friend group dynamics when big life choices like buying a house enter the chat. Caroline draws on lessons from group therapy, while Jess gets vulnerable about her habit of making quick assumptions about others.

Then these two share a major update on Caroline’s dumb phone experiment, along with an ingenious hack for keeping your phone out of your sweaty paws. Other topics of conversation include coffee table books, timelessness, and an extra spicy complaint from your beloved hater.

Check out the Foqos app Jess mentioned here: https://www.foqos.app/

This episode was produced by Kasia Houlihan. (⁠⁠cargocollective.com/kasiahoulihan⁠⁠)
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Hey kooks! Your lovable scientists are back, and they’re vying for a Nobel Prize (they’ll take any one of them) while tackling an extremely relatable whatado from a 23 year old “shy introvert” in San Francisco asking for newbie dating advice. Jess and Caroline insist that being charismatic isn’t the only way to stand out on the dating scene and wax poetic about the value of being courageous.

Then Jess tells us all about a new challenge she accepted and its profound healing effect. And Caroline reflects on her own relationship to fear. The whole conversation leads these two to reflect on the beauty of their partnership and this very podcast’s beginnings. If that wasn’t enough, tune in for a choice movie rec and the secret skill Jess reveals from her past!

This episode was produced by Kasia Houlihan (⁠cargocollective.com/kasiahoulihan⁠).
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Hey lab rats! Your beloved scientists are back! This week, Jess and Caroline tackle a whopping whatado about a (so-called) bridezilla. They examine the issue from all possible angles with a mix of tough love and genuine empathy. Along the way, these two expound upon wedding dress codes, pine for matching Grinch costumes, and marvel at the tale of a groomzilla.
Amidst all the talk of bridesmaid dresses and duties, valuable lessons about giving graciously and the tyranny of expectations are flagged. Caroline also reflects on her real-time wedding planning conundrums, while Jess’s bridal party expertise shines, along with her own brilliant bachelorette party plans. Any other Birthday Month Girls out there?

This episode was produced by Kasia Houlihan (cargocollective.com/kasiahoulihan).
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Wow wow wow! This week Jess is ready to tell Caroline all about her trip to Austin, including a story of beverages and AI gone wrong. They chat secret menus, taking trips as a homebody, and articulate what type of travel they actually want to participate in. 

They explore how they feel about navigating different sleep schedules than their partners, and talk more about their branded couple moments, while also considering their ever-present search for belonging. Plus, sporty girls, are you out there? J and C want to be you. And be sure to keep an ear out for a brilliant new merch revelation in real time! 

This episode was produced by Abi Newhouse and Kasia Houlihan.
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