The Unmasked Project

• Ep. 81 - Ovulation Made Me Do It: The Text I Shouldn’t Have Sent 👀

  🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week’s episode kicks off with heartbreak, hurt feelings... and a wildly inappropriate text message to an ex’s best friend. Oops.Layla gets raw about her breakup with James—who, btw, wrote a breakup song about her—and the impulsive decision that followed: sliding into his best friend’s DMs. The result? Some rejection, some reflection, and a whole lot of hilarious chaos.But that’s just the warm-up. From public play party orgasms with electric wands to navigating OF fallout and the uphill battle of scrubbing nudes from the internet, this episode is a full-on emotional striptease.We’re talking ovulation-fueled decisions, ethical dilemmas, boundary wins, and whether trying to hook up with your ex’s bestie is ever actually worth it. (Spoiler: usually no. But maybe sometimes?)Oh, and we may or may not have helped facilitate a sex scene live at a party. It’s fine. Everything’s fine.💥 In this episode:- When your ex writes a song called “Devil Woman” and you kinda love it- Shooting your shot with his best friend (and the very respectful curve)- Regret, ovulation, and horny mistakes we learn from—maybe- The real cost (and process) of deleting your adult content from the web- Electric play, party orgasms, and the vibe of curated chaos- Why the podcast is taking a short break—and what’s coming next🎧 Whether you’re team “text the bestie” or team “what the hell is wrong with you,” this episode is pure unfiltered fire. Hit play and dive in.🔥 Bonus episodes & behind-the-scenes tea in Discord🌶️ Products we love⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 – Breakup confessions & devilish songs from exes 3:30 – “I walked in on you with him” (James, if you're listening... hey) 6:50 – The text to the best friend and the respectful rejection heard 'round the world 10:30 – Ovulating and out of pocket: why she did it anyway 14:40 – Ethics, egos, and dating within the friend group 18:20 – OnlyFans regrets: what happens after you quit 21:00 – Scrubbing adult content from the internet: time, cost & trauma 25:30 – NSFW content gone viral (not in a good way) 30:00 – Party talk: peptides, play spaces, and power tools 33:00 – Electric wand + vibrator = public orgasm, no notes 36:00 – From awkward to electric: how safe play feels 40:00 – Party vibes, curated vs. casual, and the burnout is real 45:00 – Behind-the-scenes: podcasting, purpose, and a retreat reset 50:00 – What's next for the pod (and why we’re taking a breather) 53:00 – Burning Man plans & unmasked future teasers 56:00 – Wrap-up: Try something—try someone—new🔗 Follow us on IG🔗 Follow us on TikTok📧 Questions or stories? [email protected]

  --------  

  45:30

  --------

  45:30
• Ep. 80 - What It’s Really Like at a Play Party (First-Timers Tell All) 🎭👀

  Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, we’re lifting the veil on one of the most tantalizing rites of passage in the lifestyle: your first curated play party. And we didn’t just talk about it—we brought in a couple who lived it.Meet Ray & Andy: longtime listeners who won tickets to The Play and walked in wide-eyed… only to become the stars of the night. From mirror spanking scenes that stopped the room to blindfolded sensory experiences, energetic makeouts, and even some accidental hypnosis—it’s the kind of wild ride you only get when it’s your first time.It’s raw, it’s curious, and it’s a little chaotic—in the best way. We talk about what makes a curated event hit different, how expectations line up with reality, and why chocolate representation still matters in these spaces.If you’ve ever wondered what really happens at these parties—or if you're planning your first—consider this your unofficial survival guide.💥 In this episode:How a podcast and a Google search sparked a play party origin storyTheir spicy meet-cute at a pool party (and a crowd-stopping spanking scene)Inside The Play: vibes, attractions, and activities galoreThe “Helen Keller” room, sensory games, and the orgy of handsParty politics, wristband signals & navigating first-time nervesWhat they’d do differently—and why they’re already planning to go back🎧 Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or seasoned and jaded, this one brings you back to that electric first-time energy. Grab a drink, press play, and maybe even take notes.🔥⁠ Bonus footage in Discord⁠🌶️ ⁠⁠Products we love⁠⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project0:40 – Meet Ray & Andy: Listeners Turned First-Timers2:00 – Their Sketchy First Parties & Why They Searched for More4:30 – Chocolate Representation & Feeling Seen6:00 – How They Met: Pool Party + Spanking Scene = Magic9:00 – Room-Stopper: When the Whole Party Watched12:00 – First Impressions at The Play15:20 – Massage Tables, Snakes & Sensory Rooms18:30 – Blindfolds, Hands & Accidental Orgies22:00 – Hypnotized to Climax?! (Yes, Really)26:00 – Parallel Play, Shy Guys & Consent Talks30:10 – Real Talk: Is There Enough Chocolate at These Events?34:00 – Playroom Dynamics & What Surprised Them39:00 – Party Themes: Hits, Misses & Dressing to Impress44:00 – Role Play Dreams & Why Cocktail Attire Is King48:30 – Advice for First-Timers: Boundaries, Connection & Saying Hi52:00 – Would They Go Back? (Spoiler: Hell Yes)54:00 – Wrap-Up: Try Something—Or Someone—New🔗 ⁠Follow us on IG⁠🔗 ⁠Follow us on TikTok⁠📧 Questions or stories? ⁠[email protected]

  --------  

  52:24

  --------

  52:24
• Ep. 79 - Smells Like BV? The Vagina Talk Everyone Needs (But No One Has)

  🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!Second date, and we're bringing back a banger! We brought a masked OBGYN into the playroom. Dr. Arianna joins us to answer all your burning questions about BV, UTIs, birth control, vaginal hygiene, and the mysterious condition known as PMDD. From what your discharge actually means to whether boric acid is your best friend or a quick fix fail, we’re getting clinical without killing the vibe.This isn’t your high school health class. We’re talking real talk about vagina smells at parties, post-play infections, and why some women feel like they’re losing their damn minds once a month. Plus: Do pregnancy salads work? Is it okay to birth on all fours? What’s the deal with Lotus births? Reddit brought the chaos—and Dr. Arianna brought the facts.If you’ve ever whispered “Is this normal?”—this is your episode.💥 In this episode:BV, yeast, and why your vagina isn’t dirtyThe great soap debate: What’s safe to use down there?What causes post-party infections (and how to prevent them)The truth about birth control and hormone mythsPMDD, mood swings, and the partner pain no one talks aboutWTF is a Lotus birth, and should you actually do it?⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome + Meet Dr. Ariana, Masked OBGYN 1:05 – What is an OBGYN (and yes, she does C-sections too) 2:52 – What exactly is BV, and why does it smell like that? 6:04 – How sex, toys, and yoga pants trigger infections 8:29 – Can soap cause BV? (Short answer: yes) 10:31 – Boric acid, BV myths, and treating the wrong thing 12:11 – Do you need antibiotics or just vibes? 13:28 – Yeast vs. UTI vs. WTF: What are you actually feeling? 15:47 – What partygoers should know about hygiene & handwashing 17:48 – Condoms, toy cleaning & washing your damn hands 20:12 – Let’s talk about birth control (and the anti-hormone panic) 24:00 – Is it bad to skip your period? Not always. 26:32 – PMDD: The mood monster in your luteal phase 29:02 – Fighting with your partner? It might be your hormones 30:50 – How birth control + SSRIs treat PMDD 34:09 – Reddit rapid-fire: pregnancy salads, all-fours births, and Lotus weirdness 39:39 – Birth plan vs. emergency plan: when doctors have to pivot 42:00 – Final thoughts + massive respect for Dr. Ariana🔗 Stay connected:🌶️ Products we love🔥 Bonus content in Discord📷 Follow us on IG🎵 Follow us on TikTok📧 Questions or [email protected]

  --------  

  42:40

  --------

  42:40
• Ep. 78 - She Found Out She Was on the No-Fly List… Here’s What Happened

  Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!In this tell-all episode, we rip the mask off one of the lifestyle’s most whispered-about topics: the No-Fly List. Who gets put on it, why they’re there, and how it feels when you find out you made the cut. From unspoken boundaries to repeated STI scares, we’re digging deep into what keeps people “off limits” in open relationships and Lifestyle circles.It’s raw, it’s real, and sometimes… it’s personal. We swap stories of awkward “not with you” moments, playing politics in play parties, and the awkward truth about why some people just can’t get past your partner’s rules. Plus, the surprising ways being single changes how couples treat you—and why some flirtations never make it past the DMs.If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I being respectful… or am I about to get grounded from the hot list?”—this one’s for you.💥 In this episode:- What a “No-Fly List” really means in the lifestyle- The fine line between safety, jealousy & politics- How STI patterns can land you on the list (and keep you there)- Why being single changes the party dynamic- The real reason some couples won’t play with you- Respect, boundaries & calling out repeat offenders🎧 If you’re navigating ethical non-monogamy, Lifestyle etiquette, or just want to avoid the “banned” list, grab your drink and buckle up—this one flies close to the sun.🔥 Bonus footage in Discord🌶️ Products we love⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project0:40 – “No-Fly List” 101: What It Means & Why It Exists2:15 – Have You Ever Been On One? Confessions From the Crew4:10 – The Role of Trust, Safety & Past Drama6:00 – Pikme Behavior & Disrespecting Couples’ Dynamics8:15 – Playing Together vs. Playing Solo10:00 – STI Patterns & Drawing the Line12:45 – When Being Single Changes the Game15:10 – Why Some People Feel “Silently” Rejected18:20 – Navigating Insecurities & Hotness Ratios21:05 – The Siren Effect: Attractive Energy as a Double-Edged Sword24:00 – Respecting Boundaries Without Killing the Vibe27:40 – Do You Confront Repeat Offenders or Just Add to the List?31:15 – Being Misunderstood in the Lifestyle34:20 – Flirtation, Friend-Zoning & Why Men Don’t Approach38:10 – Power Dynamics & Party Hosting41:00 – The Slap Heard ’Round the Playroom44:20 – Lessons Learned: Communication, Respect & Reputation47:30 – Final Thoughts: Flying High Without Crossing the Line🔗 Follow us on IG🔗 Follow us on TikTok📧 Questions or stories? [email protected]

  --------  

  45:32

  --------

  45:32
• Ep. 77 - We Left a Play Party for the Gym Crew… Was It Worth It?

  Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, we left a play party… to crash a gym crew happy hour. Yep, it was that kind of night.In this cheeky yet vulnerable episode, Layla and Brian unpack everything from flirty gym crushes to emotionally confusing “friendships” that only show up when someone’s single. We’re talking about hot bodies, hotter boundaries, and the real communication gaps hiding in open relationships.From sweaty workouts to sweaty situationships, we explore what happens when fitness motivation meets lifestyle temptation. Is it ever safe to hook up within your gym crew? Why do some “friends” vanish into monogamy and pop back up like clockwork? And most importantly—are you washing yourself correctly?Whether you’re navigating modern love, trying to avoid cheating tales, or just here for the real talk, this one’s packed with humor, heart, and a little sweat.💥 In this episode:Leaving a play party for a gym crushFlirty friends, emotional boundaries & communication skillsWhen “he’s just a friend” hits different in an open marriageWhy your gym might be the new lifestyle hotspotConfessions about hygiene, hand towels, and honestyThe power of couples therapy (and group chats)🎧 Whether you're on a fitness journey, a wellness journey, or just trying to find your people, this episode serves gym motivation and romantic insights.We’re sweaty, unfiltered, and still your favorite unmasked crew.🔥 Bonus footage in Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Products we love: ⁠https://www.unmaskedpod.co/products-we-love⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome to The Unmasked Project0:13 – Guys who are “100% straight”... but watching what?0:31 – Inside LA’s hottest gym party1:52 – We left a play party for this?3:06 – Gym happy hours: messy, sexy, or both?5:00 – Why we don’t date at our gym7:16 – DIY cut-offs & Michaels cart therapy11:27 – When friends only text you single14:15 – Flirting or emotional cheating?17:00 – How to keep the peace with your partner20:35 – Fitness motivation or forbidden vibes?24:20 – The great washcloth debate28:00 – Soap, sex, and sweat: body talk gets real30:00 – Reddit reactions: swingers, poly, and play rules34:10 – Do couples who swing together really stay together?37:00 – Emotional growth vs. hot mess express40:00 – Dating profiles decoded: what those bios really mean🔗 Follow us everywhere:🔥 Instagram🔥 TikTok💌 Questions or stories? [email protected]

  --------  

  41:24

  --------

  41:24

More Health & Wellness podcasts

Trending Health & Wellness podcasts

About The Unmasked Project