Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

I keep hearing the same story from people who are looking for love later in life: they want a relationship that feels good, but they’re not always sure how to tell the difference between real compatibility and a temporary rush of attraction.
In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I speak with dating and relationship coach Sandy Weiner, chief love officer at Last First Date, TEDx speaker, author of Choice Points in Dating, and host of the Last First Date podcast. We talk honestly about why so many people second-guess themselves in dating, why the spark can be misleading, and how to build a relationship that actually lasts.podcastmarketingmagic.
What Sandy shares is practical, refreshing, and deeply useful for anyone navigating dating after 40, 50, or 60. We get into attachment styles, self-trust, boundaries, and the difference between chemistry that fizzles and connection that grows over time.

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ABOUT SUZANNE:
Suzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of the Sex Advice for Seniors podcast, one of the top-rated shows empowering people 50+ to embrace confident, joyful intimacy. Known for her candid, warm, and often humorous approach, Suzanne challenges age-related taboos, misinformation, and awkward conversations about sex after 50. She helps millions around the world navigate their sexual lives with pleasure, connection, and self-assurance. Because life is too short for bad sex... or silence about it.

CONNECT WITH SUZANNE:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexadviceforseniors
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/sexadviceforseniors
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexadviceforseniors
Substack: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com

WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexadviceforseniors.com — includes FREE guides and resources for better sex at any age.
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Follow Sandy Here:
Website https://lastfirstdate.com/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/lastfirstdate
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Lastfirstdate

Chapters:
0:00 Chemistry vs compatibility in dating after 50
1:16 Meet Sandy Weiner, dating coach and founder of Last First Date
2:37 How dating motivation changes for women vs men after 40
3:09 Why women over 50 second-guess themselves in dating
7:38 How long does it take to really know someone you're dating?
8:04 What it means to be a woman of value in later life dating
9:35 How to identify your non-negotiables and real deal breakers
10:08 Sandy's three pillars for confident dating
10:41 Why your values get flexible when you like someone (and what to do about it)
12:46 Dating in your 50s vs your 20s and 30s: what actually changes
13:20 How to state your standards early without being difficult
14:10 Why chemistry is harder after 50 and how to recalibrate attraction
16:50 Dating after 50: body image, confidence, and doing the inner work
18:26 Does therapy make someone a better partner?
19:14 Why dismissing people based on checklists costs you great relationships
21:31 EQ vs IQ in dating: what emotional intelligence actually looks like
23:44 How chemistry develops through shared experience (and what kills it)
25:47 Why coffee dates kill attraction and what to do instead
28:35 What travel reveals about a partner's real personality
32:06 Sandy's one piece of advice for seniors navigating dating and relationships today


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What if intimacy in later life isn’t really about sex at all?
In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I speak with George Goulburn, a straight male escort in his 50s, who works with women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80s.
What he shares challenges almost every assumption about escorting, desire, and connection in later life.
Far from quick, transactional encounters, George’s clients are seeking something deeper: emotional connection, safety, touch, and the chance to feel seen and desired again, often after years or even decades without intimacy.
We explore what women really want as they age, how confidence and sexual identity evolve, and why honest conversations about desire are still so rare.
This episode is honest, surprising, and deeply human, and it might just change how you think about intimacy in later life.
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ABOUT SUZANNE:
Suzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of the Sex Advice for Seniors podcast—one of the top-rated shows empowering people 50+ to embrace confident, joyful intimacy. Known for her candid, warm, and often humorous approach, Suzanne challenges age-related taboos, misinformation, and awkward conversations about sex after 50. She helps millions around the world navigate their sexual lives with pleasure, connection, and self-assurance. Because life is too short for bad sex... or silence about it.

CONNECT WITH SUZANNE:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexadviceforseniors
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/sexadviceforseniors
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexadviceforseniors
Substack: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com

WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexadviceforseniors.com — includes FREE guides and resources for better sex at any age.
Free Downloadable Guide: 10 Most Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex PDF: https://subscribepage.io/suzannenoblefreebie
Sign Up for My FREE Newsletter: https://sexadviceforseniors.com
Overcome Erectile Dysfunction & Stay Firm: https://www.stayfirmprogram.com
Check Out My Storefront for Better Sex: https://zaap.bio/stayfirm
Interested in 1:1 Coaching or Custom Sex Advice for Seniors Sessions? https://tidycal.com/suzannenoble/30-minute-mentoring

CONNECT WITH GEORGE:
Website https://www.georgegoulburn.com/
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/georgegoulburnofficial
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@George_Goulburn
Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/george.goulburn.2023

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Why this conversation matters
00:25 Meet George: A male escort for women over 50
03:20 Why intimacy takes time, not just sex
08:30 Who hires male escorts and why
11:20 What women really want
16:00 Do clients fall in love?
18:40 Ethical non-monogamy and dating life
21:40 Creating safety, trust, and consent
27:40 Myths about male escorts
29:00 Why older women don’t want “perfect” bodies
31:20 Why we struggle to talk about sex
34:20 Sex with older virgins: a hidden reality
35:50 The real outcome: confidence and self-worth


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Most couples say their relationship is their top priority—but their time, energy, and attention often tell a different story.
In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I’m joined by relationship coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner Monica Tanner to explore what really keeps long-term couples connected, emotionally and sexually, well into their 60s, 70s, and beyond.
We dive into Monica’s surprisingly simple “3% rule” - a powerful framework for maintaining intimacy, connection, and communication without needing to overhaul your entire life. We also unpack why resentment builds in long-term relationships, how health challenges affect sexual intimacy in older adults, and whether it’s truly possible to change relationship patterns after decades together.
If you’re navigating love, sex, and connection in later life, this episode offers practical, realistic tools you can start using today.
What You’ll Learn:
·       The “3% rule” for relationship success and why small time investments create big intimacy gains
·       How to maintain emotional and sexual connection in your 50s, 60s, and 70s
·       Why resentment in long-term relationships is often unspoken desire
·       The daily habit that keeps couples from drifting apart over time
·       How illness, aging, and health issues impact intimacy... and how to adapt
·       Why couples delay important conversations about sex, needs, and expectations
·       Whether it’s possible to change deeply ingrained relationship patterns later in life
Key Topics & Keywords:
Sex advice for seniors, intimacy after 60, relationships in later life, sexual health for older adults, maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships, marriage advice for older couples, communication in relationships, emotional connection in aging, sex and aging, overcoming resentment in relationships, relationship coaching, Relational Life Therapy, intimacy after illness, rekindling connection in later life
About Monica Tanner:
Monica Tanner is a relationship coach, Relational Life Therapy practitioner, and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast. She helps couples create deeper connection, better communication, and lasting intimacy - no matter how long they’ve been together.
Connect with Monica:
·       Website: https://www.monicatanner.com/
·       Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-intimacy-tips
·       Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monitalksmarriage
·       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2
·       YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter
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In this lively conversation with Dr. Trina Read, a globally recognised sexologist, author, and one of the “most trusted voices on long-term intimacy,” we discuss the new wave of sex toys, namely those created by a company called Tracey’s Dog, which is “beta-ing” a toy called Drill Me. Yes, you read that correctly.
A company that sounds like it should be making pet products, which is what it originally was, has now entered the world of “teledildonics” (apparently, that’s a thing) to create a product that allows you to have sex with, for example, a werewolf (Hugh Jackman, are you listening?) via an avatar you can create. Or a doctor. A fireman. In fact, any fantasy you might have, whether it’s a younger or older man, a man in uniform, or a sexy beast.
You name it, and apparently the Aiphy app can create it, allowing you to move beyond the mediocre sex you may be experiencing in real life and have the kind of sex you’ve always desired. This, folks, is our future.
Or is it?
Trina and I discuss whether over-50s are ready for, or even interested in, sex toys of this variety, whether AI avatars can replace real people, and the pros and cons of this new technology.
I won’t give away the outcome. Instead, I hope you’ll listen to this Substack Live, which was a lot of fun. And, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!


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The wonderful Amara Charles and I talk about how to design your sexual life as you age. How to experience pleasure, and what if an ageing body isn’t broken, but is simply done performing?
Can later life sex become freer, wiser, more playful and more intimate than the sex we had when we were younger? Listen and find out!
Go to amaracharles.com to learn more about Amara’s work.
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