Many men who grew up in conservative households never received a sex education. Instead, they got silence, or shame, or a marriage arranged before they knew what desire even was. That silence can follow them for decades.
This week on Sex Advice for Seniors, I talk to Joe Bains, a London-based biohacker and tantra practitioner, about what seven years at a tantra school taught him about intimacy, orgasms, and why your health is the biggest aphrodisiac there is.
Joe came from a background where sex simply didn’t exist as a conversation. Now he’s multi-orgasmic, and he has a lot to say about how you get there.
Here’s what we cover:
* Why biohacking is just optimisation, and why it matters more to your sex life than you think
* What “internal orgasms” actually are and how men learn to have them
* Why health is the single most powerful driver of desire at midlife
* How “how you do anything is how you do everything” applies directly to your sex life (even sweeping the floor!)
* What it takes to escape a background of total sexual silence and start again
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