#18: No Filter, No Gatekeeping: Leaving The Lifestyle, Imitate Hygiene & Your Swinging Questions Answered!
⚠️ Explicit Content | 18+ OnlyThis episode contains frank, unfiltered conversations about swinging, sex, and everything in between. If you’re under 18, this one’s not for you.Episode 19 of the Beyond Vanilla Podcast with Amy, Emily , Benjamin & the one and only Doug the Pug.This week we’re diving into YOUR questions straight from Instagram — and nothing is off-limits. From intimate hygiene to pegging, our dream club theme nights, going viral on TikTok, playroom etiquette, and even our thoughts on Bonnie Blue we are giving you our opinions in our usual unfiltered way!As always, expect plenty of laughs, swearing, oversharing, and zero sugarcoating. No gatekeeping here — just the real talk about the lifestyle you won’t hear anywhere else.
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#17: Secrets, Smogies & Naughty Stories!
🔞 Explicit Content – 18+ OnlyThis episode of Beyond the Vanilla is not for the faint-hearted. Secrets, Penthouse, orgies, fisting (yep, we said it) — nothing’s off limits in this episode. Amy, Emily & Ben are on the sofa with all the unfiltered stories, savage opinions, and unapologetic laughs you can only get from us. 🔞Amy and Emily are back — and this time, they’ve dragged Ben onto the sofa with them (because let’s be honest, you all love when the boys get involved).We’re spilling everything: Emily and Darren’s trip to Secrets, Amy and Ben’s Birmingham adventure including Amy's first time fisting a man! As you know by now she has no filter so be prepared to hear all about that in graphic detail. Amy & Ben are spilling the tea about their bank holiday blowout at Penthouse. Expect chat about group play etiquette, what really goes down at an orgy, and some seriously unfiltered laughs along the way.But it’s not all naughty stories — we’re also diving into the bigger stuff: disability and accessibility in the lifestyle, one-penis policies (and what we really think of them), and how relationship dynamics constantly shift.As always, it’s unapologetic, uncensored, and most definitely unfiltered.
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#16: Tequila Rose Party, Social Monogamy, Bi Guys, Pushing Boundaries & Backdoors!
⚠️ Explicit Content WarningThis podcast is strictly 18+. We’re unfiltered, uncensored, and diving into conversations you’d usually only have behind closed doors with your partner… if you were a swinger. Expect blunt talk, adult themes, and zero sugarcoating.This weeks episode is all about Amy’s life-changing ladies-only party, Ben’s big blessing for her first solo meet with a single guy, Emily’s upcoming trip to Secrets… plus a cheeky backdoor tip from Emily you’ll only hear on this podcast. Honest, unfiltered, and the kind of things you’d only say if you were a swinger.We’re back with a brand-new episode and diving straight into all the things you only talk about if you’re in the lifestyle.Amy shares her trip to the ladies-only Tequila Rose party — and why it was a total game-changer. Ben and Amy open up about a recent meet that sparked the topic of social monogamy: what does it mean, and are you socially monogamous & why? Plus, we’re talking about bi men in the lifestyle, Emily’s upcoming trip to Secrets, and Ben giving Amy the ultimate blessing — her first solo meet with a single guy!And of course, it wouldn’t be Beyond Vanilla without a little cheeky chat about the backdoor, with Emily sharing a surprising top tip she picked up from a bi guy.Unfiltered, honest, and straight from the heart — we’re talking about the things most people never would, but swingers say out loud.👉 Follow us on Instagram & TikTok, grab our free PDF, and join the conversation. Our DMs are always open we love to here from you.
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#15: So When Did Swinging Stop Being About Sex?
⚠️ This podcast contains adult themes, explicit language, and frank discussions about sex and non-monogamy. 18+ only. Listener discretion is advised.Episode 15: Swingers, Sun Headlines & the Rise of the Anti-SocialWe’re back, baby — and we’ve got a lot to say. After a short break (and a cheeky little feature in The Sun), Amy & Emily are catching you up on everything we’ve been up to — and clapping back at the so-called “experts” who say you can’t be non-monogamous and a good parent. Spoiler: we disagree, and so do many of you. 👏In this episode, we’re diving deep into:💥 BTS of our day shooting for The Sun newspaper 🍼 Non-monogamy + parenting — why can't you do both?📉 How the lifestyle has changed & we don't like it!🥂 From wild playrooms to staged socials — where did the fun go?🔥 Why swinging is about casual sex (not clout) 🚫 Introducing The Anti-Social — for when you’re actually DTF 😏We’re bringing it all: unfiltered thoughts, extremely honest opinions, and a touch of nostalgia for when the lifestyle was wild, sexy, and not so curated.🎧 Tune in, join the chat, and don’t forget to grab our free boundaries & rules PDF https://linktr.ee/beyondvanilla Follow us on Insta & TikTok for more cheeky content.
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#14: When Boundaries Are Crossed – Talking About Assault & Misconduct in the Lifestyle
🔞 18+ Listener Warning: This episode contains open discussions about sexual assault, misconduct, and boundary violations in the lifestyle. Please listen with care, and skip this one if it may be triggering for you.Episode 14: When Boundaries Are Crossed – Talking About Assault & Misconduct in the LifestyleToday’s episode is a more serious one, but one we feel is so important.We’re talking openly about sexual assault, misconduct, and inappropriate behaviour within the swinging lifestyle,This includes stories from all four of us, including the boys, because we believe it’s time we stop ignoring how these issues affect everyone, not just women.You’ll hear:⚠️ Our personal stories and experiences⚠️ A powerful story from our friend Bella, shared with her permission⚠️ Why misconduct toward men is often overlooked⚠️ The cultural differences in etiquette between countries⚠️ Why boundaries and consent must always come first — no matter where you areWe know the lifestyle can be one of the most supportive, loving, empowering communities — but that doesn’t mean it’s perfect. And when things do go wrong, it’s crucial that we talk about it.If anything in this episode resonates with you, know that you're not alone, and it wasn’t your fault. Our DMs and inbox are always open if you need to talk.💌 Download our FREE Rules & Boundaries quiz: https://tr.ee/beyondvanillaLots of love Amy, Emily, Ben & Darren x
Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. 💋 New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…
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