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Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction

Sam Tielemans, LMFT
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction
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  • 223: If You Solve These 3 Problem and You Can Quit Porn Addiction For Good
    Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  [email protected]   Episode show notes: Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/  Is quitting porn addiction supposed to feel this hard? If you're exhausted from white-knuckling urges, managing triggers, and constantly trying not to slip… this episode will change everything. The truth is, the path how to porn doesn’t have to be exhausting — it’s only exhausting when you don’t know what to do. Most men aren’t lacking effort or willpower… they’re just missing the map. In this episode, I break down the three hidden root causes that keep men stuck in the porn cycle, even when they’ve tried filters, accountability, cold showers, and “just being more disciplined.” More importantly, he shows you how to solve each one — through real client stories, emotional breakthroughs, and clear next steps you can implement right now. Inside this episode: The real reason willpower alone doesn’t work Why most men are trying to manage porn urges instead of resolving them How emotional awareness (not just self-control) changes everything The #1 lie shame tells you — and how to break out of the shame loop for good Why disconnection, not lust, is often the real trigger behind porn use How to build emotional connection and intimacy (even if you're scared to open up) If you’ve ever thought: “I’m doing everything I can… why am I still stuck?” — this episode will give you answers. You’ll learn how to identify the real emotional root behind porn use, stop spinning your wheels, and take the first clear step toward freedom.  
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  • 222: Fix the Process, Not the Person: 5 Reasons You Haven't Quit Porn Addiction Yet (And What to Do About It)
    Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  [email protected]   Episode show notes: Most men think they’re failing because they’re not strong enough, disciplined enough, or spiritual enough to stop watching porn. But what if the real problem isn’t you — it’s the process you’re using? In this episode, I break down 5 key reasons why men stay stuck in cycles of porn addiction — and how to finally break free. Whether you’re trying to quit pornography yourself or you’re a wife wanting to understand why he keeps falling back into it, this episode will help you get clarity. We’ll walk through: Why most men don’t actually know what to do to find freedom from porn What a skill gap looks like when it comes to rebuilding self-worth and emotional control Why identifying real pornography triggers (not just surface-level ones) matters How motivation shifts when the pressure to “never mess up” gets too high What hidden blockers (like shame or relationship disconnection) often sabotage progress You’ll hear real stories from men I’ve coached, and I’ll give you clear tools to apply if you want real porn addiction recovery — not just white-knuckle sobriety. This episode is especially helpful for men who feel stuck, and for wives who live in fear that “it’ll just come back one day.” You’ll see how the solution isn’t more control or hypervigilance — it’s about building the skills and clarity that lead to long-term relapse prevention. If you’re ready to overcome porn urges, understand the root cause of pornography addiction, and feel confident in your growth — this episode is for you.  
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  • 221: Success Story: Mark Quit Porn Addiction After 38 Years (you can use his plan too))
    Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  [email protected]   Episode show notes: After 38 years of porn addiction, today’s guest finally broke free—not through willpower, blockers, or accountability partners, but by uncovering the root cause behind his compulsive pornography use. In this powerful interview, we talk about how he spent decades stuck in the cycle of porn relapse, shame, secrecy, and failed attempts to quit… and how everything changed once he learned how to identify the emotional patterns driving the urges. If you’ve ever wondered why quitting porn feels impossible, why willpower never lasts, or why traditional porn addiction recovery strategies fail, this episode is a game-changer. You’ll hear the exact moment he realized porn wasn’t the real problem, how understanding his emotional triggers led to lasting transformation, and how he built the confidence and self-worth he never thought was possible. We go deep into topics like: • Why porn becomes a coping mechanism, not just a bad habit • How emotional pain, stress, and shame fuel pornography cravings • The difference between surface-level behavior control vs. root-cause healing • Why “just stop watching porn” never works long-term • The skills he learned that finally made permanent freedom from porn possible It’s a story about clarity, courage, and rebuilding life without pornography—and it proves that even after decades of struggle, healing from porn addiction is possible when you work on the real issue beneath the urge. If you're tired of fighting urges, tired of relapse, or tired of feeling broken because of porn, this episode will give you hope—and a practical path forward.
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  • 220: What If It “Just Comes Back?” — How to Gain Long-Term Control Over Pornography Use
    Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  [email protected]   Go deeper on tools to resolve shame - see episode 128 Episode show notes: A lot of men ask – “What if the porn urge just comes back?” “What if I lose control again?” “What if I stop being so careful and mess up?” And a lot of wives feel the same fear. One woman said, “It feels like this just lurks in the corner.. like it could come back at any time — and I wouldn’t even know.” This fear creates pressure, anxiety, and tension in the relationship. The man feels like he has to be perfect. The wife feels like she can’t relax. This episode helps both of you understand the real reason urges come back — and how to stop that from happening. You’ll learn: Why urges don’t “just show up” — they happen when important skills are missing What those missing skills usually are, and how to build them Why trying to control everything with willpower and fear doesn’t work How to create trust by actually addressing the root cause of pornography addiction Why this brings more peace, stability, and confidence to both the husband and the wife If you're working on porn addiction recovery and want to feel more in control — not just avoid porn but actually overcome porn urges for good — this episode will give you a clear plan. It’s also helpful for relapse prevention, handling pornography triggers, and understanding how real porn addiction counseling goes beyond filters and rules. It gets to the heart of the problem so you can move forward with healing.
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  • 219: Perfectionism and Shame
    Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  [email protected]   Episode show notes: Perfectionism might look like high standards — but for many men, it’s actually fear in disguise. In this episode, we talk about how the pressure to always “get it right” becomes one of the biggest hidden triggers for porn use. You’ll learn why feelings of failure, shame, and “not being enough” create the emotional weight that drives the urge to escape through pornography — and how to break that cycle for good. Instead of fighting perfectionism with more willpower or affirmations, you’ll discover how to pinpoint the real issue underneath it — whether it’s stress, disconnection, or a skill that just needs to be built. This episode will help you: Understand the root cause of pornography addiction linked to perfectionism and shame. Learn how to overcome porn urges by removing the emotional pressure that fuels them. Build a stronger sense of self-worth that’s not tied to performance or success. See failure differently — not as proof you’re broken, but as feedback about your system that can be improved. If you’ve ever felt like you have to be perfect to feel worthy — or that one slip means you’ve ruined all your progress — this episode will help you breathe again. You’ll see how to find peace, rebuild confidence, and take your next step forward in porn addiction recovery with clarity and compassion.
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About Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction

Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or want to go deeper in quitting pornography and rebuilding your relationship, this podcast gives you the clarity, hope, and next steps you need. Topics include: How to overcome porn urges and triggers without relying on willpower Rebuilding trust after betrayal in your marriage Restoring emotional connection and sexual closeness Understanding the root causes of porn use Navigating communication breakdowns, shame, fear, and disconnection New episodes every week. Subscribe now and start your healing journey toward lasting freedom and relationship renewal.
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