Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships

Have the holidays ever made your loneliness feel heavier? You’re not alone—midlife anxiety and stress often peak the week before Christmas.In this episode, you’ll discover:1.     Why loneliness intensifies during the holidays, especially in midlife2.     How understanding the biology of loneliness softens your judgement helping you reduce loneliness. 3.     A gentle coping skill that helps you feel more connected. 🎧 Take 6 minutes to bring more calm and connection to your week—you’re worth it. Send us a text **** About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Does the holiday season ever feel like a part-time job you’re paying to work?If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone.In this episode, you’ll discover:1.     How to recognize when holiday expectations push your midlife brain into overwhelm2.     The three  quick and free reset strategies that calm anxiety and stress quickly3.     A simple way to reclaim your capacity without doing more🎧 Take 7 minutes to move from frazzled to grounded—you're worth it.Send us a text **** About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Do the holidays feel heavier because you’re carrying stress, anxiety, and overwhelm you barely had room for in the first place?You’re not alone if this season amplifies everything your midlife brain is already managing.In this episode, you’ll discover:1.    The real difference between stress, anxiety, and overwhelm—and why holiday pressure intensifies all three2.    What happens in your midlife brain and body when you’ve quietly exceeded capacity3.    How understanding overwhelm helps you reclaim clarity and calm without adding anything to your plate Take 9 minutes to bring more calm to your holidays—you’re worth it.Send us a text **** About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Do you ever feel like you’re stuck saying yes when every part of you wants to say no?People-pleasing may look helpful on the outside, but it fuels midlife anxiety and stress while leaving you disconnected from what you really want.In this episode, you’ll discover:How to notice the wave of feelings that trigger people-pleasing.Why anchoring in your breath helps break the fawning cycle.How the FAWN steps—Feel, Anchor, Watch, Name—move you from automatic yes to standing strong. Take 11 minutes to stop people-pleasing and start standing steady in your truthIn Appreciation of Episode 200!  Join me for a free workshop:Send us a text **** About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Do you ever wonder why you say yes when you want to say no—only to feel anxious, resentful, or even angry afterward?You’re not alone—people-pleasing is one of the most common hidden drivers of midlife anxiety and stress.In this episode, you’ll discover:1.     What people-pleasing (or fawning) really is, and why it’s more than just “being nice.”2.     Why it silently fuels midlife anxiety, stress, and anger—damaging both your self-respect and your relationships.3.     The hidden causes of people-pleasing, from social conditioning and family systems to trauma and sensitivity.🎧 Take 13 minutes to understand the roots of people-pleasing, and begin reclaiming your truth—you’re worth it. Send us a text **** About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.