The Metabolism and Menopause Podcast

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Do you wake up already feeling behind—like no matter how hard you try, you can’t catch up?
If you’re juggling everything, holding it all together on the outside, yet feeling rushed, reactive, and quietly exhausted on the inside… this episode is for you.
Most women don’t lose momentum because they aren’t trying hard enough. They lose it because they’re living in constant urgency—responding to everything, bracing for impact, and never feeling grounded enough to breathe.
In this episode, we talk about the missing piece no one explains: peace.
Not as a personality trait. Not as something that magically appears when life calms down—but as something you can intentionally put on, even in the middle of chaos.
This conversation offers a new lens for the overwhelmed, high-functioning woman who feels like she’s always rushing, always failing, and never quite at rest.
If life feels like a constant emergency and you’re tired of pushing just to stay afloat, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening—and offer a glimmer of hope you can carry with you today.
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro – Why Fat Loss & Health Feel Harder Than Ever
(00:52) Always Feeling Behind, Rushed & Exhausted in Midlife
(02:43) The Lie We Believe: “Peace Comes After Things Settle Down”
(04:09) How Urgency Creates Chaos (Not Progress)
(07:10) Why You’re Not Inconsistent — You’re Emotionally Reactive
(09:23) Peace as Traction: Why Stability Comes Before Results
(12:20) Peace Prepares You for Progress (Not the Other Way Around)
(15:23) Practical Ways to Resist Urgency & Create Daily Peace
(18:35) Slowing Down, Recovery & Letting Go of Hustle Culture
(21:59) Final Takeaway: Peace Is a Practice You Choose Daily
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‣ Menopause supplements (code VITALITY10): https://shop.nutritiondynamic.com/collections/all
‣ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitalityoet.stephanie
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Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-metabolism-and-menopause-podcast/id1683220450
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Email: [email protected]
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© 2026 Stephanie Crassweller & VitalityOET

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Are your results slowing down — or even moving backward — the harder you try?
In this episode, we’re breaking down the real reason women over 40 can put in more effort and yet see fewer changes.It’s definitely not because you’re not trying hard enough.
If you’re training consistently but your body isn’t responding the way it used to, this episode will help you understand why — and what it means for your approach moving forward.
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro – Why Your Old Workout Approach Stops Working After 40
(00:52) The Real Question: How Much Do You Actually Need to Work Out?
(02:32) Why Fitness Classes Feel Hard… but Give “Meh” Results
(03:49) Low Estrogen, Inflammation & Why Muscle Gets Harder to Build
(04:52) The “Stress Bucket”: Why Your Body Can’t Recover Like It Used To
(10:31) The Sweet Spot: 2–4 Workouts Per Week (What That Looks Like)
(18:49) Sets, Reps & Progressive Overload (Why You’re Not Seeing Change)
(26:01) Signs You’re Overtraining (Puffiness, Cravings, Worse Sleep)
(30:08) When Exercise Becomes Control (and Why Rest Feels So Hard)
(37:16) Simple Training Blueprint + Final Takeaway
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‣ Website: https://www.vitalityoet.com/
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‣ Menopause supplements (code VITALITY10): https://shop.nutritiondynamic.com/collections/all
‣ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitalityoet.stephanie
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Email: [email protected]
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© 2026 Stephanie Crassweller & VitalityOET

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‣ Book a COMPLEMENTARY CONSULTATION + CALORIE CALCULATION call
• how much & what to eat 🍴🌮
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• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
https://calendly.com/d/2p8-mxx-dgf/free-consultation-call-zoom
‣ Take The Fat Loss Fix Quiz:
https://1ck2gu1qfir.typeform.com/menometabolism
Hormonal belly bloat is incredibly common in perimenopause because the systems that control fluid balance, digestion, inflammation, and stress response are shifting.
And when those systems are off — even slightly — your body holds on:
Water.
Waste.
Inflammation.
Which shows up as that tight, puffy, uncomfortable belly that makes you feel like nothing fits… even when you’re eating “clean.”
Today I’m sharing 4 simple, practical steps that reduce hormonal belly bloat — without extreme restriction, detox teas, or punishing yourself.
These are the same strategies I use with clients all the time, and they work because they support how your body actually functions in perimenopause.
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro – Why Hormonal Belly Bloat Shows Up in Perimenopause
(01:10) What’s Really Causing Belly Bloat (Fluid, Inflammation & Stress)
(02:01) Step 1: Electrolyte Balance (Sodium vs Potassium)
(05:25) Step 2: Hydration & Why Drinking More Water Reduces Bloat
(06:49) Step 3: Natural Diuretic Foods That Reduce Puffiness
(10:38) Step 4: Stress, Cortisol & Why Bloating Gets Worse Over the Day
(16:56) Why Pushing Harder Makes Bloating Worse
(18:52) Final Takeaway: Change the Signals, Change the Response
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• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
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‣ Join our community: Metabolism and Menopause by Vitality - Secrets for Fat Loss
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‣ Apply for coaching with us:
https://calendly.com/d/386-k9q-4cg/coaching-application-call-zoom
‣ Website: https://www.vitalityoet.com/
‣ DUTCH hormone testing: https://www.loom.com/share/a567d01c12b44aaf855dcf3d9049d537
‣ Menopause supplements (code VITALITY10): https://shop.nutritiondynamic.com/collections/all
‣ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitalityoet.stephanie
Listen the Podcast on Apple or Spotify:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7erYECmZG7JHyzFePoaybe?si=ad89a3c7d408496e
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-metabolism-and-menopause-podcast/id1683220450
All other links:
https://stan.store/vitalityoetstephanie
Email: [email protected]
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© 2026 Stephanie Crassweller & VitalityOET

FREE SUPPORT & RESOURCES:
‣ Book Your COMPLEMENTARY CONSULTATION + CALORIE CALCULATION call
• how much & what to eat 🍴🌮
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• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
https://calendly.com/d/2p8-mxx-dgf/free-consultation-call-zoom
‣ Take The Fat Loss Fix Quiz:
https://1ck2gu1qfir.typeform.com/menometabolism
‣ Calorie Calculation Call:
https://calendly.com/d/2p8-mxx-dgf/free-calorie-calculation-consultation-call-zoom
If eating less actually worked, your body would already be responding.
Calories are not just numbers. They’re signals. And your hormones, stress load, inflammation, and metabolic history decide whether those signals are used for energy… or stored as fat.
You’ll learn:
👉 The early signs your calories are off (even if you’re “eating enough”)
👉 Why traditional calorie calculators break down after 40
👉 How hormones, stress, digestion, and inflammation change what your body can do with food
👉 Why eating less often makes fat loss harder—not easier
👉 What actually matters when determining the right calories for your body now
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro – Why Calorie Math Stops Working After 40
(01:39) Signs Your Calories Are Wrong (Even If You’re “Eating Enough”)
(03:31) Why Online Calorie Calculators Fail Women in Midlife
(06:57) Metabolic History: How Dieting Lowers Calorie Burn
(11:07) Hormones, Stress & Why Your Body Stores Calories
(14:56) Digestion, Inflammation & Blocking Fat Burning
(16:55) Muscle Mass, Training & Calorie Utilization
(17:58) Protein, Carbs & Fat: Why Calories Are Signals
(23:12) Final Takeaway: You Don’t Need a Better Calculator
(24:34) How to Actually Find Your Real Fat-Loss Calories
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• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
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‣ BRAND NEW workout subscription:
https://coach.everfit.io/package/UF858169
‣ Join our community: Metabolism and Menopause by Vitality - Secrets for Fat Loss
https://m.facebook.com/groups/969761266958379
‣ Apply for coaching with us:
https://calendly.com/d/386-k9q-4cg/coaching-application-call-zoom
‣ Website: https://www.vitalityoet.com/
‣ DUTCH hormone testing: https://www.loom.com/share/a567d01c12b44aaf855dcf3d9049d537
‣ Menopause supplements (code VITALITY10): https://shop.nutritiondynamic.com/collections/all
‣ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitalityoet.stephanie
Listen the Podcast on Apple or Spotify:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7erYECmZG7JHyzFePoaybe?si=ad89a3c7d408496e
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-metabolism-and-menopause-podcast/id1683220450
All other links:
https://stan.store/vitalityoetstephanie
Email: [email protected]
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© 2026 Stephanie Crassweller & VitalityOET

FREE SUPPORT & RESOURCES:
‣ Book a COMPLEMENTARY CONSULTATION + CALORIE CALCULATION call
• how much & what to eat 🍴🌮
• exercise & lifestyle recommendations 🚶‍♀️🏋🏽‍♀️
• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
https://calendly.com/d/2p8-mxx-dgf/free-consultation-call-zoom
‣ Take The Fat Loss Fix Quiz:
https://1ck2gu1qfir.typeform.com/menometabolism
You didn’t wake up planning to panic about your body today.
But here you are.
Your stomach feels heavy before you’ve even eaten.
Your face looks puffier than you remember.
Your clothes feel tighter than they did a few weeks ago.
And suddenly your brain is loud:
I need to fix this. I need control back. I can’t let this spiral.
So the rules start forming:
👉 Eat less
👉 Skip meals
👉 Work out harder
👉 “Undo” the holidays
And underneath all of it is the same fear so many women quietly carry:
What if I just ruined my progress?
This episode is for the woman sitting in that moment.
The one who didn’t “fall off,” didn’t binge uncontrollably, didn’t suddenly forget discipline — but still feels uncomfortable, frustrated, and on edge in her own body after the holidays.
It’s about understanding what your body is responding to — and why your gut instinct to “do more” may be the very thing keeping you stuck.
If you’ve ever thought:
👉 I need to get back on track immediately
👉 I can’t afford to let this go on
👉 Why does my body react like this now?
You’re not alone.
And you’re not imagining it.
Listen before you decide what to do next.
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00) Intro – Why Old Fat Loss Strategies Stop Working in Midlife
(01:08) Post-Holiday Panic: “I Feel Heavy, Puffy, and Out of Control”
(03:01) Why Pushing Harder Backfires After 40
(04:01) What Actually Changed Over the Holidays (Carbs, Sodium, Alcohol, Sleep)
(07:02) Why Treating Water Retention Like Fat Gain Makes Things Worse
(09:05) The #1 Mistake Women Make After the Holidays
(09:45) What to Do Instead: Eating Regularly to Calm Stress Hormones
(11:07) Stop Chasing Sweat: Training That Reduces Inflammation
(12:22) Hydration, Potassium & Releasing Water Weight
(14:22) Urgency Is the Real Fat Loss Saboteur
(15:56) Final Takeaway: The Holidays Aren’t the Problem — The Reaction Is
CONNECT WITH ME ONLINE:
‣ Book a COMPLEMENTARY CONSULTATION + CALORIE CALCULATION call
• how much you should eat 🍴
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• exercise adjustments 🏋🏽‍♀️
• lifestyle recommendations 🚶‍♀️
• specific resources to support you on your journey 📕
https://calendly.com/d/2p8-mxx-dgf/free-consultation-call-zoom
‣ BRAND NEW workout subscription:
https://coach.everfit.io/package/UF858169
‣ Join our community: Metabolism and Menopause by Vitality - Secrets for Fat Loss
https://m.facebook.com/groups/969761266958379
‣ Apply for coaching with us:
https://calendly.com/d/386-k9q-4cg/coaching-application-call-zoom
‣ Website: https://www.vitalityoet.com/
‣ DUTCH hormone testing: https://www.loom.com/share/a567d01c12b44aaf855dcf3d9049d537
‣ Menopause supplements (code VITALITY10): https://shop.nutritiondynamic.com/collections/all
‣ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitalityoet.stephanie
Listen on:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7erYECmZG7JHyzFePoaybe?si=ad89a3c7d408496e
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-metabolism-and-menopause-podcast/id1683220450
All other links:
https://stan.store/vitalityoetstephanie
Email: [email protected]
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© 2026 Stephanie Crassweller & VitalityOET