You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist

Writer Róisín Michaux investigates women's rights and free speech in the context of the transgender movement. Róisín brings a uniquely European lens to her research, exposing how LGBTIQ activist organizations in Europe are heavily state-funded — unlike the U.S., where private foundations like the Rockefellers and Ford Foundation dominate — and how this funding pipeline has turbocharged some of the most extreme gender ideology we're seeing today.
We dig deep into intersex activism: what it actually is, who's behind it, and why it matters for parents navigating the gender craze with their children. Róisín explains the crucial distinction between people with genuine disorders of sexual development (DSDs) — rare, named medical conditions like congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), Turner syndrome, and complete androgen insensitivity syndrome (CAIS) — and the largely queer-theory-driven "intersex identity" movement that has very little to do with medicine and everything to do with dismantling the sex binary.
We also explore the history of brain sex research, how trans activists strategically abandoned the science when it stopped serving them, and how self-ID legislation spread from Argentina to across Europe through incremental legal maneuvers. I close with an important note for parents: understanding the politics of intersex activism is valuable, but knowing how to actually talk to your child about these issues is a different skill altogether — one I teach in ROGD Repair.
Róisín Michaux is an Irish writer based in Brussels, Belgium. She writes about women's rights and free speech in the context of the transgender movement. She is specifically interested in LGBTIQ activism, activists' relationship to EU/European bureaucracies, the funding they receive, and how it has all led to deep and anti-democratic policy capture. She has 2 kids and a cocker spaniel. Follow her on X @RoisinMichaux or on Substack at Peaked.

[00:00:00] Start
[00:02:00] What Is Intersex Activism and Why It Matters
[00:07:00] DSDs vs. Intersex Identity: Two Separate Worlds
[00:16:00] The Top Line Demand: Stop All Infant Surgeries
[00:17:00] Origins of Intersex Activism and John Money's Legacy
[00:28:00] Activists vs. Doctors: The Surgery Moratorium Debate
[00:36:00] The Real Agenda: Queering the Sex Binary
[00:47:00] The Brain Sex Hypothesis and Why Activists Abandoned It
[00:54:00] The 1993 Amsterdam Meeting and the Pivot to Self-ID
[01:01:00] How Self-ID Laws Crept Through European Courts
[01:08:00] Government Funding and How Fringe Ideology Goes Mainstream
[01:16:00] Creating Iatrogenic Intersex with Cross-Sex Hormones
[01:19:00] DSD Families, the UK Supreme Court, and CAIS
[01:24:00] The "Consent at 12" Framework and the Trans Agenda
[01:29:00] Medical Necessity vs. Trans Activist Demands
[01:36:00] Infighting, Identity, and the Mess of Merging Medicine with Politics
[01:39:00] PCOS, Testosterone, and a Word for Parents
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Today I'm sharing a conversation I had with Dennison Joyce on his show Through the Looking Glass, originally aired on WIOX Radio last year (episode #228). Dennison asked me to walk through my program for parents, ROGD Repair, and to break down the framework I call the Trifecta of Social Contagion — the three interlocking forces I believe are driving the epidemic of young people identifying as transgender.
Those three forces are: gender identity ideology, woke social justice narratives, and Cluster B personality traits. I explain how these elements work together like a perfectly engineered mind virus, exploiting the unique vulnerabilities of today's youth — their insecurities, rigidity, and need for identity — and how this creates a near-impossible situation for parents trying to help their kids. I also address the manufactured consensus inside the medical and psychiatric professions, and why so many therapists who could help are simply staying away from this issue.
We also get into the practical side of my coaching work — what the ROGD Repair program is, how I work with families, and some of the most common mistakes parents make, including why showing your child detransitioner videos usually backfires. I share how porn, particularly hypnosis-style content, is deeply connected to the rise in gender confusion in teenage boys, and why early intervention matters more than most parents realize.
FYI: this interview was recorded a few months prior to the release of RepairBot. All new ROGD Repair memberships now come with unlimited access to RepairBot, the AI companion tool designed to help with homework and strategizing.
Books mentioned in this episode:
Trans by Helen Joyce
Dennison Joyce hosts Through the Looking Glass on WIOX Radio. Big thanks to Dennison for this wonderful interview, and for sharing the recording with me with permissions to republish.

[00:00:00] Start
[00:01:40] Stephanie's Background as a Gender-Affirming Therapist
[00:03:55] The Trifecta of Social Contagion Explained
[00:08:07] Cluster B Personality Traits Unpacked
[00:10:28] Social Justice Narratives and Intellectual Families
[00:12:12] Gender Identity Ideology and Its Roots
[00:13:23] Why Good Therapists Are Avoiding This Issue
[00:14:53] The Manufactured Consensus in Medicine
[00:17:29] How Parents Find Stephanie and ROGD Repair
[00:20:40] The Coaching Process: Working with Families
[00:22:14] Harm Reduction When Medicalization Has Already Begun
[00:23:49] Common Parental Mistakes: Detransitioner Videos Backfire
[00:27:42] When Parents Aren't on the Same Page
[00:30:14] Shift in Demographics: Boys Now Following Girls
[00:31:10] Pornography's Role in Male Gender Confusion
[00:34:35] Why Parents Should Seek Help Sooner

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Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.

Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.
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In this episode, I sit down with Ryan Malphrus, a licensed clinical social worker and therapist in private practice who works with adolescents and adults — particularly boys and men. Ryan spent 15 years working in level-five special education schools before transitioning to private practice, and he brings a grounded, refreshingly honest perspective on the struggles facing young men today.

We dive into how boys communicate through behavior and aggression, and why the instinct to shut those impulses down often backfires. Ryan shares his own experience of internalizing societal messages that told him his natural masculine traits — his drive, his assertiveness, his sexuality — were problems to be managed rather than understood. We explore the red pill pipeline and "looksmaxxing" culture, and why young men are turning to these communities when therapy and education fail to speak to their actual needs.

We also discuss the crisis of purpose facing men in modern society, why schools are not boy-friendly, the vital role of physical play and risk-taking in healthy development, and how parents — especially single moms — can learn to step back and let their sons work through conflict. We close with a conversation about differentiation: that psychological maturity that allows us to have feelings without being controlled by them, and how adults modeling that capacity gives children the room to develop it themselves.
Ryan Malphrus is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Maryland and Connecticut providing individual psychotherapy to adolescents and adults. With over 10 years of experience, Ryan specializes in working with men and boys, offering a space to explore identity without judgment. His primary orientation is psychodynamic, and he is a board-certified clinical supervisor. Learn more at ryanmalphrus.com or follow him on X @VirgilMSW.

[00:00:00] Start
[00:05:25] Interpreting Kids' Behavior as Communication
[00:09:35] Natural, Logical, and Punitive Consequences
[00:12:35] Boys Hiding From Masculinity
[00:17:10] Red Pill Culture and Looks Maxing
[00:23:25] Societal Shame Around Male Nature
[00:28:25] Online Identity and Social Media's Impact
[00:33:55] The Crisis of Male Purpose
[00:39:15] Trades and Alternative Paths to Manhood
[00:47:20] Are Schools Boy Friendly?
[00:51:35] Physical Play and Male Bonding
[00:56:50] Thoughts vs. Actions With Angry Kids
[01:05:15] Giving Adolescents Progressive Freedom
[01:13:05] Differentiation and Emotional Maturity
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Chaplain, coach, and author Dean Abbott joins me for a thought-provoking conversation about the difference between healthy introspection and unhealthy rumination. Dean challenges a popular argument that therapy simply encourages people to think about themselves too much, making the case instead that people don't ruminate for fun — they ruminate because they're in pain and searching for something they've lost.
Together we explore what makes self-examination productive versus destructive, and Dean introduces a framework rooted in the Christian tradition that contrasts nihilistic rumination — where a person endlessly rehearses their pain with no resolution — with a more structured self-examination oriented toward growth, virtue, and wisdom. I get personal and share my own recent struggles with loneliness and the tension between being a generous host and not getting that energy back when I need it most. Dean walks me through what healthy self-examination would look like in that situation, pointing to the importance of recognizing our legitimate needs and having the courage and honesty to express them.
We also dive into the lost concept of human formation, the role of moral education in therapy, why thousands of years of wisdom literature shouldn't be abandoned in the counseling room, and the difference between development and formation. This is a rich, honest, and deeply human conversation.
Dean Abbott is a coach, chaplain and author living in the Midwest. He loves animals, music and baseball. His can be found at www.deanabbott.com. His X account which has been hacked is @deanabbott but he doesn't recommend following him until the situation is resolved.
[00:00:00] Start
[00:00:49] Stephanie Introduces Dean Abbott
[00:02:07] Healthy Versus Unhealthy Introspection
[00:03:47] Why the "Stop Ruminating" Argument Falls Short
[00:05:09] People Don't Ruminate for Fun
[00:07:13] The Missing Half: Why Culture Fails the Ruminative Mind
[00:08:16] Nihilistic Rumination Versus Christian Self-Examination
[00:10:20] Stephanie Gets Personal About Loneliness
[00:13:00] Walking Through Healthy Self-Examination
[00:15:40] Tension Between Generosity and Personal Needs
[00:17:33] Wisdom Over Rule-Following in the Christian Life
[00:19:20] What Leads to Wisdom Versus What Leads to Nihilism
[00:21:45] Healthy Introspection Leads to Hope
[00:24:01] Coaching Men Who Don't Know What They Want
[00:27:35] Emotional Intelligence and Decoding Our Needs
[00:29:22] The Lost Concept of Human Formation
[00:32:15] Formation Versus Development
[00:36:07] Virtue and the Difference It Makes in Self-Examination
[00:38:25] What's Wrong With a Liberal Approach to Psychotherapy
[00:41:43] Seeing Yourself in the Larger Human Narrative
[00:43:26] Moral Education in Therapy: A Practical Example
[00:44:32] The Sports Betting Example: Virtue and Deep Self-Examination
[00:48:21] Why Reality Is Inescapably Moral
[00:50:26] Stephanie Asks for a Personal Tip on Virtue
[00:53:00] What Dean Does: Coaching, Chaplaincy, and Writing
[00:56:38] Closing
ROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Now featuring 24/7 personalized AI support implementing the tools with RepairBot! Use code SOMETHERAPIST2026 to take 50% off your first month.

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MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.

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To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!
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Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.
Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.

Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.
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Today I'm joined by Dr. Will Dobud, a social worker, researcher, and educator who has worked with adolescents and families across the United States, Australia, and Norway. Will is the co-author of Kids These Days: Understanding and Supporting Youth Mental Health, and he brings a refreshingly optimistic yet realistic perspective to the challenges facing today's young people.
We dig into some truly provocative territory in this conversation. Will challenges the prevailing narrative that phones and social media are the root of the youth mental health crisis, drawing on historical moral panics — from kaleidoscopes to pinball machines — to argue that blanket bans rarely work. Instead, he advocates for digital integration through boundaries and parental involvement.
We explore why more diagnoses, more medication, and more therapy haven't improved outcomes, and how the explosion of mental health labeling — especially around neurodivergence — may actually be doing more harm than good. Will shares his concerns about "label mania," the misuse of accommodations, and how identity politics have hijacked what was originally a movement toward inclusion. We also talk about the shortage of real-world experience for kids, the importance of rough-and-tumble play, and what parents can do to build connection instead of defaulting to control. This episode asks the hard questions: Are we crushing the spirit of youth with our own adult anxiety? And what would happen if we just gave kids something worth participating in?
Dr. Will Dobud is a social worker, researcher, and educator who has worked with adolescents and families in the United States, Australia, and Norway. Will is from Washington, D.C., and divides his time between the United States and Australia each year. He is the author and editor of three books, including Kids These Days: Understanding and Supporting Youth Mental Health. Will is an award-winning researcher and educator who has received recognition for excellence in research, teaching, and crime prevention. Dr. Dobud is a Senior Lecturer in Social Work at Charles Sturt University, Australia's largest social work school. Will is an invited international speaker who conducts workshops for therapists and families worldwide. Will's research focuses on improving therapy outcomes for teenagers and promoting safe, ethical practices. He has investigated and written about America's Troubled Teen Industry, especially wilderness therapy. He has worked alongside advocates, survivors, researchers, and clinicians to protect youth from institutionalization and harm.
WillDobud.com
www.kidsthesedaysbook.com
Facebook: @WillDobudPhD
X: @WillDobud
Instagram: @WillDobud @Kids_These_Days_Book
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/will-dobud-5209ab74/
Substack: https://substack.com/@willdobud

Books mentioned in this episode:
Kids These Days: Understanding and Supporting Youth Mental Health by Will Dobud and Nevin Harper
The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
i-Minds by Mari Swingle
The Spirit of Youth and the City Streets (1909) by Jane Addams

[00:00:00] Start
[00:02:46] Why Adults Get Trapped Trying to Fix Kids
[00:06:06] What's Actually Going Right With Youth Today
[00:10:17] Environmental Toxins and the Hard Questions
[00:11:48] Digital Interference vs. Digital Integration
[00:17:54] Can Kids Self-Regulate With Screens?
[00:25:57] Phone-Free Schools: Solution or Distraction?
[00:34:43] The Anxious Generation's Four Norms Problem
[00:37:10] Putting Yourself in a Kid's Shoes
[00:40:11] Experiential Learning and the Crowded Curriculum
[00:48:07] Autism, Neurodivergence, and Label Mania
[00:56:35] Identity Politics and Secondary Gain
[01:04:04] Living Well With ADHD Without Hiding Behind It
[01:12:11] Accommodations as Institutional Traps
[01:16:22] Breaking Free From Therapeutic Dogma
[01:18:46] Normies, Psychos, and Schizos
[01:21:25] Institutional Exploitation in Mental Health
[01:28:12] The Shortage of Experience and Risky Play
[01:32:33] DC Punk Rock as Youth Participation Model
[01:37:45] What Don't You Want to Change About Your Child?
ROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Now featuring 24/7 personalized AI support implementing the tools with RepairBot! Use code SOMETHERAPIST2026 to take 50% off your first month.

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MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.

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To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!
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Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.
Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.

Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order.